Seeing Other People
Hosted by Seeing Other People
A dating expert and former Hinge content creator interviews guests to navigate the anxieties and realities of modern relationships.
An interview podcast exploring the emotional landscape of contemporary dating. Host Ilana Dunn talks with therapists, authors, and everyday people about the psychological hurdles of finding a partner, from attachment theory and dating app burnout to communication breakdowns. The show blends practical advice with empathetic commiseration, aiming to be a wise, funny older sister for anyone navigating the dating world.
“The show's strength lies in its blend of credentialed experts and anonymous listeners, creating a space that is both educational and deeply personal. Unlike purely instructional shows, it focuses heavily on the "why" behind dating behaviors and the anxieties that plague modern daters.”
Who hosts this show
Ilana Dunn is a dating expert who hosts "Seeing Other People" to make modern dating suck a little less. After a notable stint as a lead content creator for the dating app Hinge, she launched the podcast to help listeners feel less alone in their search for love. The show features a mix of expert guests, such as therapists and matchmakers, and anonymous listeners who share unfiltered stories about everything from first dates to breakups.
Credentials & credits
- Host, Seeing Other People Podcast
- Millennial and Gen Z Dating Expert
- Former Lead Content Creator, Hinge
- Dating Coach
- Featured in The Washington Post, PopSugar, and The Independent
- Serves on the Founders' Committee for the Hunter Watson Memorial Fund
Other ventures
- Dating Profile Revamps & Coaching
- Content Creator (@ilana.dunn)
What kind of podcast
- Country
- United States
- Region
- usa
When new episodes drop
- 01Why Dating Feels So Hard Right Now (And What to Do About It)Jun 23, 2026 · 49 min
- 02What Working on The Bachelor Taught Her About LoveJun 20, 2026 · 47 min
- 03
- 04The Reason You're Not Getting a Second DateJun 11, 2026 · 34 min
- 05Matchmaker for a Serial Rapist (Without Knowing It)Jun 9, 2026 · 44 min
- 06Fertility Anxiety, Egg Freezing & Dating Under PressureJun 2, 2026 · 42 min
- 07Meeting People IRL, App Burnout & Being Comfortable AloneMay 28, 2026 · 40 min
- 08When a Second Chance Is Worth It (And When It’s Self-Sabotage)May 26, 2026 · 48 min
Notable episodes
- 01What Working on The Bachelor Taught Her About Love
A former producer on 'The Bachelor' gives a behind-the-scenes look at how the show is made and how it ironically foreshadowed her own real-life breakup.
- 02Why Dating Feels So Hard Right Now (And What to Do About It)
A licensed therapist breaks down the core anxieties of modern dating, from fear of making the wrong choice to the difficulty of changing ingrained patterns.
- 03Matchmaker for a Serial Rapist (Without Knowing It)
In a shocking and cautionary tale, a matchmaker recounts her experience working with a client who was later convicted for being a serial rapist.
What you'll be asked on this show
Ilana Dunn typically opens an interview by exploring the guest's origin story, whether it's their career path or personal journey, to establish their background. She uses her own knowledge and personal observations to ask informed, specific questions, often probing with direct "why" questions to get to the root of psychological concepts. Dunn fosters a comfortable, encouraging environment, which allows guests to open up about personal and sometimes difficult experiences. She frequently uses specific, relatable scenarios (e.g., "How would you give feedback to someone about body odor?") to draw out concrete, actionable advice for her listeners.
This is a conversational interview show hosted by Ilana Dunn. She is an enthusiastic and encouraging host who creates a comfortable atmosphere for guests to share openly. Dunn often uses specific hypothetical scenarios to elicit actionable advice and will rephrase guest insights to ensure clarity for the audience.
Questions Seeing Other People keeps coming back to
11 cataloguedIf you're going on this show as a guest, expect some version of each of these. Each note explains when Seeing Other People reaches for it.
origin
1- Q.01
“What did you want to be when you grew up and how did you get into what you do now?”
A common opening question used to establish a guest's origin story and career trajectory.
mindset
4- Q.01
“What were your expectations versus the reality of your job?”
This question probes the difference between perception and the actual experience of a guest's profession.
- Q.02
“Why do you think people aren't doing these things / keep making these mistakes?”
A follow-up question that seeks to understand the root cause or psychology behind common errors.
- Q.03
“Why do we jump to the conclusion that there must be something wrong with us when dating fails?”
Explores the tendency towards self-blame and low self-worth in the face of rejection.
- Q.04
“Where do you think the societal fear of making the 'wrong' decision comes from?”
Asks guests to analyze broader cultural or generational trends affecting modern dating.
personal
2- Q.01
“How did your work in [dating-related field] impact your own personal dating life?”
Asks guests to reflect on the intersection of their professional expertise and personal relationships.
- Q.02
“Has anyone ever given you feedback that was particularly helpful or hurtful?”
This question flips the script, asking the expert or guest to share their own experiences with feedback.
advice
3- Q.01
“What are the biggest mistakes people make when it comes to [style, dating profiles, etc.]?”
Used to elicit specific, actionable advice for the audience on common dating pitfalls.
- Q.02
“Why do we keep going after the same type of person even when it's not working?”
This question directly addresses the common listener frustration of repeating negative dating patterns.
- Q.03
“How would you give feedback to someone you're dating about a sensitive topic like [body odor]?”
Uses a specific, awkward hypothetical to get tactical communication advice.
process
1- Q.01
“What kind of challenges do you work with most often in your clients?”
Aimed at expert guests to identify the most common problems their clients face.
Topics covered repeatedly
Who gets booked here
Guests are a mix of credentialed professionals like licensed therapists and authors, and people with unique personal stories related to dating, such as a former "Bachelor" producer or listeners sharing anonymous confessions. The common thread is a willingness to be vulnerable and speak candidly about relationships and personal growth.
- Brandi Davison Why Dating Feels So Hard Right Now (And What to Do About It)
- Julie LaPlacaon What Working on The Bachelor Taught Her About Love
- Cara Ozekon The Reason You're Not Getting a Second Date
- Addie Sellerson Matchmaker for a Serial Rapist (Without Knowing It)
- Lauren Makleron Fertility Anxiety, Egg Freezing & Dating Under Pressure
- Dr. Joy Burkheimeron When a Second Chance Is Worth It (And When It’s Self-Sabotage)
Where to find this show
Audience & reach
Sponsors include mental health services (Rula), skincare (OneSkin), supplements (Nutrafol), and direct-to-consumer brands (Quince, Zenni). The angle is geared towards a self-improvement-minded audience interested in wellness and lifestyle products.
Subscriber and view counts are pulled live from YouTube and re-verified on a 30-day cycle. Listener estimates for the RSS feed aren't published here unless they're host-verified.
Pitch Seeing Other People
People also ask
- Who is the host of Seeing Other People?
- The host is Ilana Dunn, a dating expert and former lead content creator for the dating app Hinge.
- Is this podcast still releasing new episodes?
- Yes, the podcast is active and releases multiple episodes per week.
- What is the format of the show?
- It's an interview-based show where host Ilana Dunn talks with dating experts, authors, and anonymous listeners about the realities of modern dating.
- How can I be a guest on the podcast?
- The show's episode descriptions often include a link to a page where you can submit questions or pitch yourself as a guest.
- Where can I listen to Seeing Other People?
- The podcast is available on major platforms like Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and iHeartRadio, with full episodes also on YouTube.
- Did this podcast have a different name?
- Ilana Dunn previously hosted a podcast for Hinge called "Dating Sucks." She started "Seeing Other People" after leaving the company.
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- [02]Speaker Details: Social Media Week: The Creatorverse 2023 - ADWEEKevents.adweek.com
- [03]Dating Expert Ilana Dunn on the Biggest Dating Myths - YouTubeyoutube.com
- [04]The Truth About Dating Apps, Timing, and Finding Love with Ilana Dunn - YouTubeyoutube.com
- [05]Seeing Other People - Apple Podcastspodcasts.apple.com
- [06]Seeing Other People - ART19art19.com
- [07]Ilana Dunn Press Pageilanadunn.com
- [08]“I WOULD NOT BE ALIVE TODAY IF NOT FOR HUNTER” BY ILANA DUNNhunterwatson.org
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