OUTSIDEIN Podcast
Two Singaporean couples talk candidly about the realities of modern marriage, from mental load to cultural and religious expectations.
A conversational podcast from Singapore where two couples use their own relationship dynamics as a jumping-off point to discuss broader themes. Episodes alternate between lively four-person debates (often men vs. women in a 'Pillow Fight' segment) and interviews with guests. They tackle everything from the division of household chores ('mental load') to the nuances of navigating customs ('adat'), manners ('adab'), and religion ('agama') in a modern Malay context.
“The four-host, two-couple format is the show's unique strength, allowing for built-in gendered perspectives and lively, authentic debate. Unlike solo-hosted or expert-led shows, OUTSIDEIN's conversations feel like eavesdropping on a genuine, ongoing dialogue between friends.”
Who hosts this show
OUTSIDEIN is a Singaporean podcast hosted by two married couples, Yanto & Fara and Farhan & Nurul. Releasing new episodes every Wednesday and Friday, they engage in honest, relatable conversations about marriage and relationships. The show features a mix of formats, including four-way debates and interviews with guests, aiming to provide a holistic perspective for everyone from newlyweds to long-married couples.
What kind of podcast
When new episodes drop
- 01
- 02Adat vs Adab vs Agama: We’ve Got It All Wrong! | OUTSIDEIN EP 262Jun 18, 2026 · 1h 01m
- 03Mental Load: Husband vs Wife | Pillow Fight | OUTSIDEIN EP 261Jun 11, 2026 · 1h 15m
- 04"Do I Need A Partner To Feel Complete?" | Rilla Melati | OUTSIDEIN EP 260Jun 9, 2026 · 53 min
- 05
- 06
- 07
- 08
Notable episodes
- 01Mental Load: Husband vs Wife | Pillow Fight | OUTSIDEIN EP 261
A prime example of the show's signature 'Pillow Fight' format, where the two host couples debate a contentious topic (mental load) from gendered perspectives.
- 02Adat vs Adab vs Agama: We’ve Got It All Wrong! | OUTSIDEIN EP 262
Demonstrates their ability to blend different forms of expertise, featuring both a religious scholar (Ustazah) and a professional (a real estate agent) to discuss cultural practices.
- 03"Do I Need A Partner To Feel Complete?" | Rilla Melati | OUTSIDEIN EP 260
A powerful interview with a well-known Singaporean personality, Rilla Melati, showcasing their handling of sensitive topics like divorce, single motherhood, and societal pressure.
What you'll be asked on this show
When conducting interviews, hosts Yanto and Fara often open by framing a central question or theme, like the difference between customs and religion. They tag-team questions, using their own personal experiences or curiosities to draw out specific advice and real-world examples from their guests. The style is less of a formal Q&A and more of a guided group conversation, integrating expert knowledge (like from an Ustazah) with practical perspectives (like from a property agent on the same episode).
The show's style is conversational and varies by episode. Some episodes are four-way discussions between the hosts, often framed as a 'Pillow Fight' debate. Other episodes are tag-team style interviews where the hosts bring in guests, such as religious experts or individuals with unique life stories, to explore a specific theme.
Questions the host keeps coming back to
11 cataloguedIf you're going on this show as a guest, expect some version of each of these. Each note explains when the host reaches for it.
personal
4- Q.01
“What does 'mental load' actually mean to you?”
This question is used to kick off debates about household responsibilities and define the episode's core topic.
- Q.02
“As an agent, what have you noticed entering homes of different races?”
This is directed at a professional guest to ground a theoretical discussion in real-world experience.
- Q.03
“Is a recurring annoyance before marriage a deal-breaker?”
The hosts pose this hypothetical to discuss red flags and deal-breakers in early relationships.
- Q.04
“What was it about me that first made you fall in love?”
A question one host asks their own spouse directly during a discussion, making the topic personal.
controversy
2- Q.01
“Is it okay for us to discard traditional customs ('buang adat')?”
The hosts ask this to frame a central controversy and explore the tension between tradition and modern life.
- Q.02
“Does using disposable plates for guests go against the spirit of hospitality?”
This is asked to explore how modern convenience clashes with traditional expectations.
origin
2- Q.01
“What were the first things that made you fall for your partner?”
Used in opening segments to have the hosts share their own relationship origin stories.
- Q.02
“Is bringing a gift for the host a religious rule, a custom, or just good manners?”
A typical question where hosts seek to clarify the origin of a common social practice with an expert guest.
process
2- Q.01
“Is the problem the final result, or the *way* something gets done?”
This question sets up the core conflict in discussions about marital friction and differing approaches to tasks.
- Q.02
“What's the proper etiquette for greeting when entering a non-Muslim's home?”
The hosts ask for specific religious rulings on common cross-cultural interactions.
advice
1- Q.01
“What should you say when entering an empty house?”
A follow-up question to an expert guest to get specific advice for a niche but relevant scenario.
Signature segments
- · Pillow Fight (debate segment)
- · Pillow Talk (listener story segment)
- · Host introductions: Yanto, Fara, Farhan, and Nurul
- · Sponsor tagline: 'Jual dan beli rumah? Takyah stress lagi!'
- · Intro: 'Hey hey, welcome back to another episode of Outside In...'
Topics covered repeatedly
Who gets booked here
Guests are a mix of subject matter experts and everyday people with powerful stories. The show features religious teachers (Ustazah) for spiritual guidance, professionals like real estate agents for practical advice, and individuals who have navigated challenges like chronic illness, divorce, or cross-cultural marriage.
- Rilla Melation "Do I Need A Partner To Feel Complete?" | Rilla Melati | OUTSIDEIN EP 260
- Ustazah Hidayah Azmanon “If You Were To Die Today, Would You Be Ready?” | Ustazah Hidayah Azman | OUTSIDEIN EPISODE EP 259
- Leena & Farah Ainon “Am I Too Sick To Be Loved?” | Leena & Farah Ain Autoimmune Warrior | OUTSIDEIN EPISODE EP 259
- Wadyon His Wife Said: "You're Not The Man I Married" | Wady Autoimmune Warrior | OUTSIDEIN EPISODE EP 258
- Nazri Baobedon Adat vs Adab vs Agama: We’ve Got It All Wrong! | OUTSIDEIN EP 262
Where to find this show
Audience & reach
The podcast integrates sponsors who are relevant to their audience of couples and homeowners. Real estate agent Nazri Baobed is a recurring sponsor, with ads featuring client testimonials and the agent himself even appearing as a guest expert, suggesting a model that favors deep, value-added partnerships.
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Pitch this show
People also ask
- Who are the hosts of the podcast?
- The podcast is hosted by two married couples: Yanto and Fara, and Farhan and Nurul.
- Is the OUTSIDEIN podcast still active?
- Yes, the podcast releases new episodes every Wednesday and Friday.
- What is the format of the show?
- The format varies. Some episodes are four-person discussions or debates (called 'Pillow Fights'), while others are interviews with guests who are experts or have compelling personal stories.
- What topics does the podcast cover?
- The show focuses on honest conversations about marriage and relationships, covering topics like mental load, communication, cultural customs, religious perspectives, and parenting.
- Where can I listen to the podcast?
- OUTSIDEIN Podcast is available on YouTube, Spotify, and other major podcast platforms.
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